Taylor Swift’s music empathetically captures the frustration of modern dating, addressing wasted time and comfort-eating after breakups. It resonates with many who have experienced similar situations, reflecting on universal feelings of despair and heartache.
From partners who wasted our time, to comfort-eating after a breakup. We’ve all been there and so has Swift.
In her latest album, Taylor Swift delves into personal experiences like being strung along by exes and finding solace in comfort-eating post-breakup, themes that resonate with many of us. Swift, renowned for her candid songwriting, joins a long line of musicians who’ve explored heartbreak and sorrow in their music. However, in “So Long, London,” she captures the distinct anxieties of 21st-century dating that resonate strongly with millennials, making it a standout track on the album.
In a song widely interpreted to be directed at her former partner, Joe Alwyn, she expresses frustration, saying, “I’m angry you allowed me to give you all that youth without cost.” This moment in the album feels pivotal, striking a raw nerve that halts you in your tracks.
Despite Swift’s status as a globally renowned musician, surrounded by A-list acquaintances and a substantial fortune, at her core, she’s a 34-year-old woman who intimately grasps the fears of time slipping away, the urgency of finding “The One,” and the desire to establish a family.
Rebecca Reid, a Swiftie in her early thirties, expressed to BBC News that “The Tortured Poets Department” seemed tailor-made for her.
“In ‘So Long, London,’ and practically every track, there’s a recurring theme of giving away one’s youth to someone and the impossibility of reclaiming it,” she explained. “It’s a sentiment that deeply resonates with me.”
“In ‘Take Down Bad,’ Swift croons, ‘Now I’m down bad, crying at the gym.’ These words hit home for many, capturing the sorrow of a breakup that can leave you in tears even during mundane activities.”
“Other verses depict her struggle with depression, like being unable to leave bed, while in ‘Manuscripts,’ Swift mentions finding solace in indulging in children’s cereal (we can’t help but wonder which cereal it is).”
Saira Thwaites, nearing her 30s and a devoted Swiftie, finds that the more she immerses herself in Taylor Swift’s tracks, the more she finds herself resonating with them.
“She has this incredible knack for crafting narratives that feel incredibly personal, capturing the rawness and emptiness that often accompany heartbreak,” she reflects.
Even amidst the electrifying atmosphere of Swift’s Eras tour, where she’s surrounded by adoring fans and basks in the glow of her billionaire status, Saira still finds her own sorrow lingering.
“With tears streaming, I collapse to the ground / Amidst the cheers and chants for ‘encore’,” she sings on the deceptively upbeat track “I Can Do It With A Broken Heart.”
“The song revolves around the theme of putting on a façade of being okay, of being resilient and pushing forward, even when internally you’re struggling to heal or mourn properly,” Reid explains.
“This deeply resonates with me because during the initial phase of my breakup, I found myself single parenting, appearing on TV and radio, and writing books, all while outwardly projecting an image of happiness and strength. However, internally, I was grappling with one of the most challenging traumas of my life.”
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Helen Brown, a music critic at The Independent, suggests that Swift’s songs serve as the soundtrack to the lives of an entire generation of women.
Speaking to BBC News, Brown notes that Swift eloquently expresses the struggles of a generation grappling with delayed marriages and childbirth, contrasting with societal norms of the 1990s.
Brown reflects on the paradoxical comfort and concern in realizing that Swift, despite her financial stability, shares the dating frustrations common among her peers.
Similar to them, she appears to be inundated by the array of choices and articulates feeling abandoned without explanation, prompting her to question whether her expectations of herself and her partners are too high or too low.
Swift’s latest album is being interpreted by many as a commentary on her past relationships, including with Alwyn and Matty Healy of the 1975, while also referencing her current partner, NFL star Travis Kelce. The album’s sleeve notes reveal her candid approach, as she writes, “A smirk appears on this poet’s face. Because it’s the most challenging men that inspire my best writing.”
After Swift and actor Alwyn parted ways in April 2023, anticipation grew among fans regarding her upcoming album, speculating it would delve into their breakup. The album’s title resonated with a WhatsApp group chat between Alwyn and “Normal People” star Paul Mescal, dubbed The Tortured Man Club, further fueling speculation.
In “So Long, London,” Swift subtly references wedding plans, lamenting: “You swore that you loved me, but where were the clues, I died on the altar waiting for the proof.” She also expressed sadness over leaving London, where she had lived with Alwyn, stating she had “loved” the city.
Another track, “But Daddy I Love Him,” is believed to address the rumors surrounding Swift’s alleged but unconfirmed romance with The 1975’s frontman, Healy, the previous year.
Certain fans expressed disappointment with the relationship, contending that Healy, who has been accused of misogyny and racism throughout his career (claims he denies), was not a suitable partner choice.
In her song, Swift hits back, declaring: “I’d rather burn my whole life down than listen to one more second of all this bitching and moaning / I’ll tell you something about my good name, it’s mine alone to disgrace.”
Humiliating your exes in public raises complex ethical considerations, according to Brown. “Swift’s songs refrain from directly naming individuals, and her personal narrative often intertwines truth with fiction,” she explains. “As a storyteller, Swift draws from the tradition of female country music artists who have historically confronted inappropriate behavior from men.”
Swift’s songs may contain references to her past relationships, but she consistently reflects on her own actions. Since the individuals she’s addressing are also songwriters, they have the opportunity to respond through their own music, suggesting they view it as fair game in matters of love and lyricism. The BBC attempted to contact both Alwyn, who did not respond, and Healy, who was unavailable for comment. Given this dynamic, how does Swift’s current highly visible relationship with Kelce fit into the picture?
Nona Uppal, a committed Swiftie, shares with the BBC that while much of The Tortured Poets Department delves into despair and heartbreak, it also acknowledges the joy Swift experiences in a fresh relationship, a sentiment that resonates with many.
She gestures towards the song “So High School,” seeing it as a reflection of Kelce’s experiences, portraying “butterflies” and the simple joys of watching movies with friends. “I believe it encapsulates the wide range of human emotions, where love brings out Taylor’s youthful side. For her, love is about embracing that childlike wonder,” she explains. “The vulnerability it captures resonates deeply with me, as it mirrors my own experiences.”
And who better to put those feelings into words and music than the one and only Taylor Swift? From the early days of ‘Teardrops on My Guitar’ to the poignant ‘All Too Well’, her lyrics have resonated with so many of us who have felt the sting of heartache. With each album, she paints a vivid picture of the ups and downs of relationships in a way that feels so relatable. Whether it’s the highs of falling in love or the lows of heartbreak, Taylor’s music speaks to the complexities and uncertainties of modern romance. So, if you’ve ever found yourself wondering if anyone understands your dating struggles, just turn up the volume and let Taylor’s music remind you that you’re not alone. Stay strong, keep the faith, and let’s navigate this crazy dating world together!
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